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Self-pity: Not all bad!

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Welcome to the land of self-pity , where nothing is ever quite good enough. Where whining and complaining are the main activities of the day, and where it's perfectly acceptable to feel sorry for yourself. So grab a tub of ice cream, and a stack of tissues, and join me as we embark on this journey of wallowing in our own misery. John W. Gardener once rightly said, “Self-pity is easily the most destructive of the non-pharmaceutical narcotics; it is addictive, gives momentary pleasure and separates the victim from reality. ”    It's easy to wallow in self-pity. It's like sinking into a warm, comforting bath, with the added bonus that you don't even have to get out of your pyjamas. There's something oddly satisfying about feeling sorry for yourself. In fact, it can become a sort of addiction. But don't worry. You don't have to stay stuck in self-pity forever. You can rise above it with a little effort and start feeling better. But what is self-pity really ...

Kiss Day Reflections

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Happy Kiss Day, Wait, what, Today is kiss day, Now what should I share about it which is biblical? Ok so, let's understand it with a story.... First of all what Is Kiss? Kiss is a touch or caress with the lips as a sign of love. So, Kiss is a sign of love . World sees this word in a very bad manner. Today I'll tell you the positive part about it. Let's understand it with a story:- There lived a man in a country. He was very rich and had lots of property. That man had two sons and both sons lived a very wealthy life. One day the younger son came to his father and told him to give him his part of the property. Now this man gave his younger son his part of the property. The son flew away abroad with all the money.  And there he overspent all the money. Now the time came when no single money was left with him. He started doing labor to earn money for food. At that time he remembered his father's house and he thought " I have done so wrong with my father, yet will he a...

Happy Hug Day

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So, Friends today is Hug Day, I don't want to talk about Girlfriend Boyfriend or Toxic relationship today. But today I want to talk about friends, Psychology says, every man needs a shoulder in his life, who will stand by him in times of pain, listen to him, give him sympathy and bring a solution to his problem, we call this shoulder a friend. And we choose a friend who is like a shield.  Today again,  I want to talk to you about a man, that man is very Almighty, sovereign and Big but he calls us personally his friends. This man is none other than the Lord Jesus Christ. The Bible says, Greater love has no one than this, that someone lays down his life for his friends. No longer do I call you servants, for the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all that I have heard from my Father I have made known to you.-John 15:13, 15 "Friends, when we are living in sin and that thing is going to lead us to destruction, then the Lord Jesus Chri...

Happy Promise day

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So friends, basically today is promise day. The history of promise day tells us that couples give each other promises of living together, they promise to be with each other in hard times along with that they take resolutions to improve and sustain their relationship.  As I told yesterday, nothing is permanent in this world. Yes, even the promises and resolutions aren't permanent. Many a times in toxic relationship, people leave each other during hard times, forgetting the promises they made. But today again I want to tell you about a man, He is none other than our Lord Jesus Christ who has our back in each and every circumstances. He takes us out of every troubles, He strengthens us in our weakness, He is the one who loves us unconditionally and that's why He gives a lot of promises to us and He fulfills them all. "Friends, our Lord Jesus Christ gave away His life just for the forgiveness of our sins and to re-establish our relationship with God. He also promises us the et...

Your Greatest Gift Of Teddy Day 2023

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One question I would like to ask is  "If any of your friends or spouse gives you a teddy as a gift than which teddy would you like?" "Little or big?" "Ugly or beautiful?" "Dirty or clean?" I can understand what your answer would be. Yes, on teddy day traditionally many people will give each other gifts ranging from a small keychain to a six feet big teddy. Often as human beings we like big gifts more than small ones. People often like big teddy more than small teddy. Friends, today again I want to make one thing clear to you, "No matter how good, beautiful, clean or big gift in the world you give to someone or someone gives you, one day it will become dirty, ugly and small. Nothing is permanent, everything deteriorates over time. Everything that exists in this world has a definite end." But today I want to give you a hope. Do you know which is the biggest, most beautiful and best gift in the world? Let me tell you, "Salvation fro...

Eternal Chocolate From God

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Why do people around the world celebrate Chocolate Day? In the week of Valentines Day, many couples celebrate chocolate day, they make each other happy by giving gifts of chocolate. Various, expensive chocolates are given as gifts on this day. On this day, people sweeten their bitter mouth with chocolate. On this day I remember one thing, We live in so many sins and this sins make our lives bitter. We are so lost in the bitterness of sin that it leads us into the bitterness of death. Bible reminds us that,  For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 6:23  Today again I want to tell you one thing that when our life looks very bitter, people don't like it and sometimes we ourselves don't like our life, but at such times Christ Jesus gives the sweetness of chocolate in the form of forgiveness of sin in our life. And this chocolate is for everyone.  Yes, I speak the truth that Jesus Christ gave free chocol...

ETERNAL PROPOSAL FROM GOD(PROPOSE DAY)

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WHY DO PEOPLE CELEBRATE PROPOSE DAY IN THIS WORLD? On Propose day, many boys and girls will maintain their relationship with each other or establish a new relationship by giving each other things such as roses, gifts and chocolates. Today there will be two types of people among us:-  1. People whose proposal has been accepted and will be very happy, 2. People whose proposal has been rejected will be sad. Many people will make promises to live with each other, die for each other and keep each other happy. Often when I talk about worldly love, I am saddened by how toxic we have made such a beautiful thing as love. Worldly love feels good for some time  but when the desires are fulfilled or the mind is full, that love becomes a burden and no one wants to be burdened, so they break this lifelong love. Due to this many people face mental health issues. Today again I would like to remind you about a person, Even today, 2023 years later, that man tells us "I love you so much. " He s...